For many years, our intimacy was exactly what we had been taught it should be: desire, exploration, and enjoyment. It was good, and we felt free. But as time went by, we began to notice there was a ceiling. A place we always reached, a choreography we mastered, but one that always ended the same way: with a physical release and a quick return to the noise of daily life.
The change wasn’t an overnight “click.” It was a journey of discovery about Tantra and what vital energy truly means. But this path had a clear before and after: Mexico, January 2025.
Tulum and Cancun: Opening what was closed
Our journey began in the jungle of Tulum, at Energy Tulum with Jenny Scordamaglia. There, surrounded by wild nature, we began to understand that nudity wasn’t just about taking off clothes—it was about shedding the persona.
But the most revealing moment came in Cancun. We met a shaman who worked with the body’s vibration in a way we had never seen before. With her, we learned things the mind cannot explain, but the skin understands instantly. We understood that the body is not an object to be used, but a territory full of life asking to be heard.
Leaving that place, we felt that something had opened within us that was previously closed.
Zipolite: From skin to the tribe
We took this new awareness to the Zipolite nudist festival. There, we moved from learning to action: we facilitated a Tantra Massage Workshop for couples in front of more than 80 people in CAMP.
It was an incredible experience. Jenny herself joined us, and we closed the workshop by creating a giant energy circle. Feeling the union of so many couples breathing at the same rhythm confirmed that intimacy is not mechanical; it is a matter of absolute presence.
What has really changed?
Many people ask us what this “Tantric sex” or “intentional sex” is all about. For us, it’s now very simple: it is the art of being there.
Routine sex usually has a script: you know where you’ll start and you know how it’ll end. The body does what it already knows how to do while the mind is elsewhere. There is pleasure, yes, but it is surface-level pleasure.
When we add Intent, everything changes:
- Time moves differently: There is no rush because there is no goal.
- Every contact is a destination: A caress is already the prize, not a step to get somewhere else.
- The other is no longer a means: Your partner simply becomes the place where you are.
The pleasure you find when you stop searching
This is the great lesson we bring back to our sanctuary in Girona: the deepest pleasure is not what you seek with effort; it is what finds you when you surrender to the present.
We don’t tell this as gurus, but as a couple who has known that “ceiling” and decided to break through it. The Tantra we share is born from this experience in the jungle and on the beaches of Mexico.
You don’t need to travel far to change your intimacy. You only need one thing: the willingness to look at the other without the filter of habit. To truly be here, while your body is here.
Presence is what truly brings us home.
Angela & Carles
